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Category Archives: Relationships (gay)

Why Do Gay Relationships Fail? Here are 5 Reasons

A relationship not working out is a sad moment for any person but especially for us gays. We have a hard time as it is finding a partner and when it doesn’t work out it can be absolutely devastating. I’ve worked with hundreds of couples

Does Manifesting REALLY Work?

Whenever I tell clients about manifestation they’re always a bit skeptical. That’s because they always think of it as the old mantra from the 80s ‘think it, see it, get it’. While that’s not wrong that’s just scratching the surface of manifestation.  If you want

Sex, Drugs, Jesus, and The Law of Attraction?

Hey can you keep a secret? Okay here it is. I am the biggest hypocrite in existence! You see 10 years ago I was working as a counselor (still am at a different place). By day I was telling young kids “Just say no! [to

Learn How to Conquer Your Own Mind to Get a Guy!

Here’s a secret: No amount of relationship advice will help you get the loving fulfilling relationship that you deserve if you don’t have the power over your own mind! Sadly, we gay men have serious problems with self discipline and control. Gay Men Are: 2

Don’t Get Romance Scammed!

Romance scammers are real but easy to detect if you follow my advice. As more and more western nations embrace marriage equality more and more gay men are seeking love abroad. Many gay men seek love abroad for their own reasons whether it be because

How to Make An Inter Generational Relationship Work!

Think because you’re young and thin that you’re you’re doing him a favor by being with him? Think again…. Think because you’re always flipping the bill that he should be your de-facto slave? Not so fast mister! Real relationships aren’t about keeping  score! They’re about

Why Open Relationships Don’t Work

It’s the new millennium that means out with the old and in with the new! My LGBT readers will have head the phrase ‘we don’t need to follow the ‘heteronormative’ relationship model’. These are both phrases I have heard often in support of open relationships.

Here’s What’s Holding You Back from Getting a Husband!

As a life coach/counselor that specializes in giving gay relationship advice working with gay men for over 10 years there’s almost always one theme that comes up in my office. Seriously it doesn’t matter whether he’s Black, White, Asian, Tall, Short, fat, or Thin almost