The Tale of the Man That Turned 30 A relatively young man came into my office crying one day. I asked him what the problem was and he said his boyfriend didn’t love him anymore. They began dating when he was 19 and the boyfriend was 40. But he wasn’t a gold digger. He loved … Read more8 Secrets on How to Have a Successful Gay Relationship!
A relationship not working out is a sad moment for any person but especially for us gays. We have a hard time as it is finding a partner and when it doesn’t work out it can be absolutely devastating. I’ve worked with hundreds of couples throughout my career as a men’s life coach and counselor. … Read moreWhy Do Gay Relationships Fail? Here are 5 Reasons
Whenever I tell clients about manifestation they’re always a bit skeptical. That’s because they always think of it as the old mantra from the 80s ‘think it, see it, get it’. While that’s not wrong that’s just scratching the surface of manifestation. If you want to know if manifestation really work then you need to … Read moreDoes Manifesting REALLY Work?
Hey can you keep a secret? Okay here it is. I am the biggest hypocrite in existence! You see 10 years ago I was working as a counselor (still am at a different place). By day I was telling young kids “Just say no! [to drugs]!”. By night I was snorting in the back of … Read moreSex, Drugs, Jesus, and The Law of Attraction?
Here’s a secret: No amount of relationship advice will help you get the loving fulfilling relationship that you deserve if you don’t have the power over your own mind! Sadly, we gay men have serious problems with self discipline and control. Gay Men Are: 2 times more likely to smoke cigarettes 3 times more likely … Read moreLearn How to Conquer Your Own Mind to Get a Guy!
Romance scammers are real but easy to detect if you follow my advice. As more and more western nations embrace marriage equality more and more gay men are seeking love abroad. Many gay men seek love abroad for their own reasons whether it be because they want someone younger or they just have an adventurous … Read moreDon’t Get Romance Scammed!
Think because you’re young and thin that you’re you’re doing him a favor by being with him? Think again…. Think because you’re always flipping the bill that he should be your de-facto slave? Not so fast mister! Real relationships aren’t about keeping score! They’re about respect and older/younger relationships take a certain amount of maturity … Read moreHow to Make An Inter Generational Relationship Work!
I love helping people by giving GOOD gay relationship advice and I want to help you too. There are far too many single gay men out there which is quite ironic because there are so many single gay men out there! If you want to know how to have a successful gay relationship the most important … Read moreHere’s Why You Shouldn’t Put Out on the First Date
It’s the new millennium that means out with the old and in with the new! My LGBT readers will have head the phrase ‘we don’t need to follow the ‘heteronormative’ relationship model’. These are both phrases I have heard often in support of open relationships. As a counselor I generally encourage trying new things since … Read moreWhy Open Relationships Don’t Work
As a life coach/counselor that specializes in giving gay relationship advice working with gay men for over 10 years there’s almost always one theme that comes up in my office. Seriously it doesn’t matter whether he’s Black, White, Asian, Tall, Short, fat, or Thin almost all of my clients ask me the same question! How … Read moreHere’s What’s Holding You Back from Getting a Husband!