Category: Relationships (gay)

8 Secrets on How to Have a Successful Gay Relationship!

The Tale of the Man That Turned 30 A relatively young man came into my office crying one day. I asked him what the problem was and he said his boyfriend didn’t love him anymore. They began dating when he was 19 and the boyfriend was 40. But he wasn’t a gold digger. He loved

Why Do Gay Relationships Fail? Here are 5 Reasons

A relationship not working out is a sad moment for any person but especially for us gays. We have a hard time as it is finding a partner and when it doesn’t work out it can be absolutely devastating. I’ve worked with hundreds of couples throughout my career as a men’s life coach and counselor.

Sex, Drugs, Jesus, and The Law of Attraction?

Hey can you keep a secret? Okay here it is. I am the biggest hypocrite in existence! You see 10 years ago I was working as a counselor (still am at a different place). By day I was telling young kids “Just say no! [to drugs]!”. By night I was snorting in the back of

Don’t Get Romance Scammed!

Romance scammers are real but easy to detect if you follow my advice. As more and more western nations embrace marriage equality more and more gay men are seeking love abroad. Many gay men seek love abroad for their own reasons whether it be because they want someone younger or they just have an adventurous

How to Make An Inter Generational Relationship Work!

Think because you’re young and thin that you’re you’re doing him a favor by being with him? Think again. Think because you’re always flipping the bill that he should be your de-facto slave? Not so fast mister! Real relationships aren’t about keeping  score! They’re about respect and older/younger relationships take a certain amount of maturity

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Put Out on the First Date

I love helping people by giving GOOD gay relationship advice and I want to help you too.  There are far too many single gay men out there which is quite ironic because there are so many single gay men out there! If you want to know how to have a successful gay relationship the most important

Why Open Relationships Don’t Work

It’s the new millennium that means out with the old and in with the new!  As a counselor I generally encourage trying new things since trying new  things is what helps shapes who we are as human beings.This case is different though….I strongly  advise my clients that open relationships don’t work and here’s why..,. (by

Here’s What’s Holding You Back from Getting a Gay Partner

As a life coach/counselor that specializes in gay relationship advice and teaching gay men how to get a gay partner. There’s almost always one theme that comes up in my office. Seriously, it doesn’t matter whether he’s Black, White, Asian, Tall, Short, fat, or Thin almost all of my clients ask me the same question!

Here’s How to Get Guys on Grindr and Improve as a Person!

Let me start by saying this guide applies to almost any gay dating service or app. I just said grindr because that’s what most guys search for on google. About a year ago I had a large African American gentlemen come into my counseling office really sad and depressed. I asked him what was wrong

Lose Weight to Get a Date

  Tired of being on grindr and not getting as much action as you’d like?  Are you tired of getting the creepiest guys? Maybe not getting a second date is the norm? Whether you’re a gay man or a straight women the fact that remains that men are visual creatures. Studies show the first thing

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