How to Give a Hand Job

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How to give a hand job

So you meet a nice guy. You know you need to keep him satisfied but you’re not ready to give up all of the goodies yet. You also know if you don’t do something he’ll leave you for another girl that will. Did you know you can keep him satisfied for awhile with great hand jobs? Yes a hand job may seem passé but if  you learn how to give a great hand job you can keep your man and your morals! Read more on not just how to give a hand job but how to give a great hand job!

 

 

Here’s how to give a hand job

Get him excited!

While we’re going to talk about the physical aspects sexual stimulation is as much psychological as it is physical. You can learn how to give a hand job by following the steps below but if you want to give a great hand job you need to get him going first. Make sure the mood is set and he’s anticipating what’s going to happen. Tell him how sexy he is like you mean it .  Make sure you smile (but not a forced fake smile). Bottom line is he needs to feel like in that moment he is the only thing that matters to you and that you’re so into him! Please remember it’s important not to go overboard on these things! You could end up killing the mood if he feels like you’re exaggerating.

Know your man

Every man likes to get stimulated differently.  Some guys use 2 fingers and the thumb. Other guys like to cuff the entire hand and some like the “O” ring technique where you put you make an “O” with your index finger and thumb and stroke up and down.  You’ve got to experiment around and find what works for him. Remember experimentation is your friend. As Aliyah said If at first you don’t succeed dust yourself off and try again.  If he sees you making an effort his appreciation for you will go up no matter what the outcome!

Start out before going in

A lot of girls that want to know how to give a hand job get confused because they’ve seen from porn and other movies that we just want to rip those pants off and get right down to business. While that makes for good drama the reality often doesn’t conform to good screen time. Its best to start off kissing and then moving your hand down his body until you reach his crotch. Once you’re in his fun zone rub it and gently grab it from the outside. You want him to be fully hard or close to fully hard before you whip it out. He may be embarrassed for you to see it before its standing at full attention.

The wetter the better

You want to simulate the feeling of f*cking as best as you can. The easiest way is to use lubricant. I recommend an oil based lubricant like astroglide. Why? Because those water based lubes get sticky really quickly and can create an unpleasant experience.



 It’s a package deal!

A lot of girls forget about the balls because they’re too busy concentrating on the bat. This is quite sad since the balls can produce a lot of pleasure as well.  So don’t forget to gently caress his testicles as well.

Press the perineum

 

The perineum is the area between the scrotum and his anus. You’d be surprised how much stimulation you can get by gentle pressing on his perineum during a handjob.

The anus

Whether the guy wants anal stimulation depends on the guy or not. If he’s conservative the hell no don’t go there if he’s more adventurous then maybe he’ll like having his balloon knot tickled a bit. If he’s the latter all you need to do is slowly run your finger to the perineum to his balloon knot. Make sure its still lubed up. Circle your finger around the hole and see how he reacts. If he starts making noses you’re golden! Run your finger gently around it some more until you feel like you’re ready to dive in. Diving in is actually a misnomer since that could create an unpleasant experience and possibly ruin the whole thing. You want to try to go into there slowly and gently. Don’t force it! If its not meant to be then its not meant to be. If you can’t get in there just keep playing with his anus with one hand and stroking his shaft with the other.

The finish

Another big mistake a lot of girls make is to stop immediately after he starts cumming.  If you want to make it a great handy then your job isn’t quite finished yet. Once you feel the water works begin to happen that’s when you start making noise. Its nice to get verbal. Encourage him to cum ‘yeah let me see that cum daddy’ ‘yeah baby let it out’ are personal favorites that I like to hear.  It goes back to the first point of making sure he knows you’re enjoying it too.

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Hi I'm John aka Packed Man. I wrote this blog to help men everywhere who are having manhood issues. No man should have to worry about his manhood whether it be size or function.

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One Comment on “How to Give a Hand Job”

  1. Thanks I’m going to try this tonight! I’ve been with my bf for 3 months now. I don’t want to be easy but the same time I want him to be happy. I think this is a perfect solution that will make us both happy!!

    Thanks again and Godbless

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